EMDR: Unlocking Healing Through EMDR Resourcing
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

EMDR: Unlocking Healing Through EMDR Resourcing

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) has become one of the most trusted therapies for healing trauma. While most people associate EMDR with reprocessing traumatic memories, there’s a powerful and often under-recognized element that supports emotional regulation: resourcing.

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Codependency: Complex Dance of Codependency and Narcissism
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Codependency: Complex Dance of Codependency and Narcissism

When codependent and narcissistic personalities come together in a romantic relationship, the result is often a deeply toxic dynamic. Commonly described as a dysfunctional "dance," this relationship cycle is fueled by one partner’s need to control and dominate, and the other’s compulsion to please, rescue, and self-sacrifice.

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Sex Therapy: Understanding Polyamory - A Guide to Loving Openly and Honestly
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Sex Therapy: Understanding Polyamory - A Guide to Loving Openly and Honestly

Polyamory is the practice of having more than one consensual, loving, and intimate relationship at a time—with full honesty and transparency. Unlike infidelity or secrecy-based dynamics, polyamory emphasizes freedom of choice, integrity, and communication in creating relationships that suit each individual’s needs and desires.

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Sex Therapy: Navigating Sexual Incompatibility in Relationships
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Sex Therapy: Navigating Sexual Incompatibility in Relationships

Sexual compatibility is a foundational aspect of many romantic partnerships—but it’s also one of the most common areas where couples experience tension. When two people have different libidos, preferences, or expectations around sex, it can lead to frustration, disconnection, or confusion.

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Betrayal: The Truth About Lies in Relationships
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Betrayal: The Truth About Lies in Relationships

Lying is part of the human experience. From harmless fibs to painful betrayals, we've all encountered dishonesty in some form. In relationships, however, lies—no matter how big or small—can either maintain harmony or cause deep emotional wounds.

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Trauma: Healing from a Narcissistic Mother - A Journey to Reclaim Your Self-Worth
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Trauma: Healing from a Narcissistic Mother - A Journey to Reclaim Your Self-Worth

Growing up with a narcissistic mother can deeply affect your sense of identity and emotional well-being. Her manipulation, control, and lack of empathy often leave long-lasting wounds—ones that impact self-esteem, relationships, and overall mental health. But healing is possible. By acknowledging the harm, setting boundaries, and learning to nurture your inner self, you can reclaim your power and rebuild your life.

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Couples: Understanding Narcissistic Relationship Dynamics
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Couples: Understanding Narcissistic Relationship Dynamics

Human beings are wired for connection. Healthy relationships are built on cooperation, empathy, and mutual respect—especially during times of conflict. But not all attachments foster safety and trust. In relationships marked by narcissistic dynamics, attachment often becomes antagonistic—where one person benefits at the expense of another.

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Codependency: Understanding Trauma Bonding in Relationships
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Codependency: Understanding Trauma Bonding in Relationships

Healthy, supportive relationships are essential to our well-being—but for those with a history of trauma, navigating emotional intimacy can feel anything but straightforward. Two common relational patterns that often emerge from unresolved trauma are trauma bonding and codependency.

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Sex Therapy: Understanding Sexual Anorexia
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Sex Therapy: Understanding Sexual Anorexia

Sexual anorexia is a deeply misunderstood condition that involves a compulsive avoidance of sexual intimacy. Popularized by Dr. Patrick Carnes in his book Sexual Anorexia: Overcoming Sexual Self-Hatred, this condition doesn’t stem from a lack of interest alone—it is rooted in fear, shame, and emotional pain tied to sexuality.

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Infidelity: Should Accountability Be Required After an Affair?
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Infidelity: Should Accountability Be Required After an Affair?

Healing after an affair is one of the most emotionally complex journeys a couple can face. For the betrayed partner, one of the most vital components of recovery is often accountability—the reassurance that the unfaithful partner is committed to transparency, honesty, and rebuilding trust. But what happens when that need for security clashes with the other partner’s desire for autonomy and a clean slate?

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Sexual Addiction: ADHD and Sexuality - Understanding the Impact and Strategies for Intimacy
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Sexual Addiction: ADHD and Sexuality - Understanding the Impact and Strategies for Intimacy

ADHD doesn’t just impact focus or organization—it can deeply influence how individuals experience sexuality and form intimate connections. From heightened sexual impulsivity to low desire or emotional disconnect, ADHD can play a significant role in shaping sexual behavior. Understanding these patterns and learning how to manage them can make a transformative difference in relationships.

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Betrayal: Setting Boundaries for Safety and Recovery
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Betrayal: Setting Boundaries for Safety and Recovery

Experiencing infidelity can leave you emotionally shattered, unsure of how to regain your sense of safety and trust. This kind of pain is not just emotional—it’s an attachment wound, one that can trigger trauma responses like anxiety, flashbacks, insomnia, and negative beliefs about your self-worth. Healing is possible, but it begins with one essential step: setting boundaries to restore a sense of control and emotional security.

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Trauma: A Path to Healing
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Trauma: A Path to Healing

Trauma can silently shape how we feel, think, and relate to others—often long after the event has passed. Whether caused by abuse, loss, violence, or neglect, trauma can significantly affect mental and emotional health. Trauma therapy is a powerful, research-backed approach that helps individuals process painful experiences, reduce symptoms of PTSD, and reclaim their lives.

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Couples: The Power of Self-Regulation and Co-Regulation
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Couples: The Power of Self-Regulation and Co-Regulation

Strong, lasting relationships aren’t built on love alone—they require emotional awareness, communication, and the ability to navigate conflict together. Two key relationship skills at the heart of emotional connection are self-regulation and co-regulation. Together, they help couples build trust, handle emotional ups and downs, and develop deeper intimacy.

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EMDR and Parts Work: A Powerful Combination for Healing Trauma
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

EMDR and Parts Work: A Powerful Combination for Healing Trauma

Trauma can fracture the sense of self, leaving individuals feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or stuck in painful patterns. While Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy is a highly effective trauma treatment on its own, combining it with Parts Work—particularly Internal Family Systems (IFS)—can significantly deepen healing. This integrative approach honors the complexity of trauma while providing a compassionate, structured path toward emotional relief and wholeness.

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Prodependence: A New Approach to Supporting Families of Addicts
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Prodependence: A New Approach to Supporting Families of Addicts

For decades, the dominant model in addiction treatment for families has been codependency—an approach that often urges loved ones to “detach with love.” But what if there's a more compassionate, empowering way to support families without pathologizing their care and concern?

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Sex Therapy: A Gap in Sexual Desire
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Sex Therapy: A Gap in Sexual Desire

When couples experience a mismatch in sexual desire, the impact can ripple through every area of their relationship. One partner may feel rejected or unwanted, while the other feels inadequate or pressured. Over time, this gap can lead to frustration, emotional distance, and even resentment. But with the right support, healing is possible—and sex therapy offers a compassionate, effective path forward.

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Infidelity: How to Overcome Anger After a Spouse’s Infidelity
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Infidelity: How to Overcome Anger After a Spouse’s Infidelity

Infidelity is one of the most devastating experiences a person can face in a relationship. It shatters trust, triggers intense emotions, and often leaves the betrayed partner grappling with rage, heartbreak, and confusion. While anger is a natural and valid response to betrayal, how you process and express that anger can either promote healing or prolong suffering.

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