EMDR: Harnessing the Healing Power of Bilateral Music for Anxiety, Stress, and Trauma
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

EMDR: Harnessing the Healing Power of Bilateral Music for Anxiety, Stress, and Trauma

Are you struggling with anxiety, trauma, or chronic stress? Have you found it difficult to sleep or calm your racing thoughts? If so, bilateral music may offer the soothing support you’ve been searching for. Used in trauma therapy, especially in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), bilateral music can be a gentle yet powerful tool for emotional regulation and healing.

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Codependency: Understanding Empathy vs. Codependency
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Codependency: Understanding Empathy vs. Codependency

In the intricate fabric of human connection, empathy and codependency often appear similar—both rooted in care and concern for others. However, while empathy nurtures mutual understanding, codependency can slowly erode self-worth and emotional boundaries. Distinguishing between the two is key to building relationships that are supportive, sustainable, and emotionally healthy.

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Sex Therapy: Navigating the Realm of Fetishes
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Sex Therapy: Navigating the Realm of Fetishes

As conversations about sex become more open and inclusive, fetishes have become a common topic—ranging from foot fetishes to more niche preferences. While many fetishes are harmless and can enhance intimacy, others may disrupt emotional connection, daily life, or cause distress.

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Couples: Unpacking the Dynamics of Relationship Happiness
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Couples: Unpacking the Dynamics of Relationship Happiness

The phrase “Happy wife, happy life” has been passed down as a relationship mantra for generations, often cited as a simple formula for marital peace. But while it may sound like good advice on the surface, this idea risks reinforcing an oversimplified and imbalanced dynamic—one that places emotional responsibility on one partner while minimizing the complexity of mutual relational satisfaction.

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EMDR: Healing Trauma and Breaking Addiction
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

EMDR: Healing Trauma and Breaking Addiction

Addiction often stems from unresolved trauma. When trauma is left unprocessed, it can manifest through unhealthy coping mechanisms like substance use, compulsive behaviors, or self-sabotage.

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Sex Therapy: The Psychology of Sadism
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Sex Therapy: The Psychology of Sadism

Sexual interests are diverse and deeply personal. Among the most complex to understand is sexual sadism—the experience of sexual arousal derived from the infliction of pain, humiliation, or control over another person.

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Infidelity: Can You Cheat in an Open Relationship?
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Infidelity: Can You Cheat in an Open Relationship?

Open relationships are built on the foundation of consensual non-monogamy—but that doesn’t mean they’re immune to betrayal. In fact, cheating can still happen, even in relationships where multiple sexual or romantic partners are allowed. The key difference lies in agreements, trust, and transparency—and when these are broken, the consequences can be just as painful as in a monogamous relationship.

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Sexual Addiction: How Pornography Can Ruin Your Sex Life
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Sexual Addiction: How Pornography Can Ruin Your Sex Life

In today's digital world, pornography is more accessible than ever. While it may seem harmless or even helpful for some, for others it becomes a growing problem—one that can interfere with intimacy, mental health, and the foundation of romantic relationships.

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Betrayal: Understanding Betrayal Trauma and Finding Strength
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Betrayal: Understanding Betrayal Trauma and Finding Strength

Betrayal trauma is one of the most painful emotional experiences a person can face. When someone you deeply trusted breaks that trust—whether through infidelity, deception, or emotional abandonment—it shatters the sense of safety and connection you once relied on. The journey of healing from betrayal is not linear, but it is possible. This blog explores what betrayal trauma is, its symptoms, and how to begin the process of healing and rediscovery.

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Trauma: How Childhood Trauma Can Impact the Brain
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Trauma: How Childhood Trauma Can Impact the Brain

Childhood is a critical period for brain development, and traumatic experiences during this time can significantly shape how the brain forms, functions, and responds to the world. Unresolved trauma from early life doesn’t just disappear—it embeds itself in the brain’s wiring, influencing emotional regulation, cognition, and overall mental health well into adulthood.

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Couples: Navigating Online Dating Safely
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Couples: Navigating Online Dating Safely

Online dating has become one of the most common ways to meet potential partners—but it’s not without risks. From emotional vulnerability to safety concerns, dating apps require more than just a catchy bio and a few pictures. Whether you’re just starting or returning after a break, this guide will help you approach online dating with confidence by implementing boundaries, emotional safeguards, and practical safety strategies.

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EMDR: CBT or EMDR - Choosing the Right Therapeutic Approach for Yourself
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

EMDR: CBT or EMDR - Choosing the Right Therapeutic Approach for Yourself

When beginning your journey toward emotional healing and mental wellness, choosing the right therapeutic method can make all the difference. Two of the most evidence-based and effective approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). While both have been shown to bring lasting results, they differ in methodology, goals, and application.

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Codependency: Breaking Free - A Journey to Self-Mattering
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Codependency: Breaking Free - A Journey to Self-Mattering

Codependency is more than just giving too much—it’s the chronic tendency to prioritize others’ needs while neglecting your own. Often rooted in early attachment wounds and reinforced by relationship dynamics, codependent patterns can leave you feeling emotionally depleted and disconnected from your own worth. The journey toward healing begins with one powerful realization: you matter too.

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Sex Therapy: Navigating Open Relationship - A Guide to Setting Healthy Boundaries
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Sex Therapy: Navigating Open Relationship - A Guide to Setting Healthy Boundaries

Embarking on an open relationship can be both liberating and overwhelming. Unlike traditional monogamous partnerships, open relationships don’t come with predefined rules. That’s what makes them so empowering—but also so complex. Creating a fulfilling and secure open relationship requires clarity, trust, emotional maturity, and, most importantly, healthy boundaries.

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Infidelity: Surprising Study Reveals Complex Dynamics of Cheating in Relationships
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Infidelity: Surprising Study Reveals Complex Dynamics of Cheating in Relationships

Infidelity is often viewed through a binary lens: an unhappy partner cheats, is wracked with guilt, and the marriage unravels. But new research paints a more intricate picture. A recent study surveying nearly 2,000 users of Ashley Madison—a dating website for individuals seeking extramarital affairs—offers surprising insights into why people cheat, how they feel about it, and what their relationships are really like behind closed doors.

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Sexual Addiction: Navigating the Impact of Pornography on Your Relationship
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Sexual Addiction: Navigating the Impact of Pornography on Your Relationship

The presence of pornography in marriages is a complex and often sensitive subject. While some couples see it as a tool for enhancing sexual exploration, others find that it creates distance, diminishes intimacy, and leads to emotional disconnection. As pornography becomes more accessible than ever through digital platforms, its impact on relationships is becoming increasingly relevant.

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