This work is best suited for individuals and couples who are curious about their patterns, willing to practice regulation outside of sessions, and open to structured feedback.

If you are looking only for validation or someone to fix your partner, this approach will likely feel frustrating.

There is space to process rupture and harm.

However, lasting change requires more than retelling the story.
We work at the level of the nervous system and attachment patterns — which means active participation between sessions.

Couples repair begins only after acting out has stopped consistently and transparency is established.

If acting out is ongoing, individual stabilization is the appropriate first step.

Structured repair cannot occur without behavioral change.

Individual therapy involves trauma processing and is available to residents of Colorado, Florida, Texas, Virginia, and Vermont.

Couples Repair Coaching is a structured, skills-based service focused on rebuilding attachment safety after betrayal. It is not psychotherapy and is private pay only.

No. Groups are psychoeducational and skills-based.
They are open to participants across the United States.

Groups focus on regulation, accountability, and structured learning — not open-ended processing.

Yes.

Repair after betrayal requires baseline stability.
Individual consultations and a formal readiness assessment are required before beginning couples repair.

Individual therapy may be covered depending on your plan and state.

I can provide superbills.

Couples Repair Coaching, Psychoeducational Groups, and online courses are private pay.

Repair is possible when there is consistent behavioral change, accountability, and increasing regulation capacity.

Therapy or coaching cannot substitute for sustained effort.

Therapy focuses on healing — addressing emotional pain, trauma, and mental health symptoms. Coaching focuses on growth — helping you develop insight, skills, and accountability for change.
In therapy, I work as a licensed professional counselor providing trauma-informed treatment for individuals and couples. In coaching, I offer education, structure, and guidance for those ready to apply recovery principles and move forward.
Both approaches can complement one another, but they are kept distinct to protect confidentiality, ethics, and your personal goals.

I specialize in betrayal trauma, sexual addiction recovery, and complex relationship repair. My approach integrates:

• Internal Family Systems (IFS) to help clients identify and heal inner protective and wounded parts.

• Polyvagal theory to support nervous system regulation and safety.

• The Gottman Trust Revival Method and APSATS/CSAT frameworks to guide partners through relational healing and trust restoration.

I also help clients develop boundaries, rebuild self-trust, and reconnect with their values after relational trauma.

Yes — if both partners are willing to engage in an honest, structured healing process. Recovery is not about forgetting or minimizing what happened; it’s about facing truth, repairing trust, and creating emotional and sexual safety.
With accountability, empathy, and guided structure, couples can build a new foundation based on truth rather than illusion.

The disclosure process allows the betraying partner to share the full truth of their behaviors in a planned, supported, and trauma-informed way. Both partners are prepared individually beforehand to ensure emotional readiness and safety.
This process follows the Atone–Attune–Attach framework and combines principles from APSATS, CSAT, and Gottman Trust Revival models. The goal is to create truth, closure, and the potential for genuine rebuilding — not re-traumatization.

Yes. All therapy and coaching sessions are offered virtually through a secure telehealth platform. This allows clients to attend from anywhere while maintaining privacy and consistency in their healing process.

• Individual therapy: $150 per session

• Couples coaching: $175 per session

• Psychoeducational programs: fees vary by format and duration

All session dues are collected at the time of service.

No. My psychoeducational and coaching groups are educational and skills-based, not therapy.
They focus on understanding patterns, learning regulation tools, and applying recovery concepts within a supportive community. They are ideal for individuals seeking structured education and accountability without engaging in therapy.

Use the Start Here guide on the Services page.