Sexual Addiction: Symptoms of Love Addiction
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Sexual Addiction: Symptoms of Love Addiction

Love addiction isn’t about love—it’s about obsession, intensity, and the desperate need for validation. People who struggle with love addiction often find themselves in a painful cycle of craving connection, yet feeling unsatisfied once that connection is made. Understanding the symptoms of love addiction can help individuals recognize harmful patterns and begin the journey toward healing.

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Sex Therapy: To the Wife Upset About Her Husband’s Porn Viewing
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Sex Therapy: To the Wife Upset About Her Husband’s Porn Viewing

Pornography can become a deeply emotional and divisive issue in relationships. If you've discovered that your husband watches porn—especially content that you find off-putting, degrading, or shocking—you may feel a combination of betrayal, anger, confusion, or even despair.

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Betrayal: 5 Common Misconceptions About Forgiveness
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Betrayal: 5 Common Misconceptions About Forgiveness

Forgiveness can be one of the most misunderstood and emotionally loaded concepts in the aftermath of betrayal. Whether it's the disappointment of a spouse, the rejection of a friend, or the mistreatment of a family member, our instinctive reactions often include anger, resentment, and the desire for justice. These emotions are natural, but when left unresolved, they can trap us in cycles of pain, bitterness, and emotional exhaustion.

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Trauma: Long-Term Effects of Childhood Trauma on Adults
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Trauma: Long-Term Effects of Childhood Trauma on Adults

Childhood trauma refers to any distressing or harmful experience that occurs during a child’s developmental years. This can include physical, emotional, or sexual abuse, neglect, or exposure to traumatic events such as domestic violence, natural disasters, or community violence.

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Couples: 11 Conversations to Have Before Committing to a Relationship
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Couples: 11 Conversations to Have Before Committing to a Relationship

Many couples transition from casual dating to committed relationships without discussing important topics. They may be physically attracted, have fun together, and assume that’s enough. But a relationship based solely on chemistry or compatibility in the bedroom often falls short in long-term sustainability.

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EMDR: How to Heal Trauma or Get Unstuck with EMDR Therapy
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

EMDR: How to Heal Trauma or Get Unstuck with EMDR Therapy

Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you try, you can’t move forward? Whether it's a better job, a secure relationship, or peace of mind—you keep hitting the same emotional walls. Deep down, maybe a part of you believes you’re not good enough or not worthy of success or love. These self-limiting beliefs may be the lingering effects of unprocessed trauma.

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Sex Therapy: Don’t Get Your Ideas About Sex From Porn
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Sex Therapy: Don’t Get Your Ideas About Sex From Porn

While pornography isn’t designed for teens, it’s unrealistic to pretend they aren’t watching it. With smartphones and easy internet access, adolescents today have unrestricted access to an endless library of explicit content. But what does this mean for their understanding of sex?

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Infidelity: Why Happy People Cheat
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Infidelity: Why Happy People Cheat

Today, marriage is no longer a practical alliance for survival. Instead, it's a romantic, companionate ideal—a place where we expect our partner to be our best friend, confidant, passionate lover, co-parent, and therapist. We want stability and spontaneity, safety and excitement, comfort and adventure—all from one person. And when our reality doesn’t align with those expectations, confusion or dissatisfaction can follow.

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Sex Therapy: When Is It Sex, and When Is It Sexual Abuse?
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Sex Therapy: When Is It Sex, and When Is It Sexual Abuse?

Sex is supposed to be mutual, pleasurable, and consensual. Unfortunately, for many people—especially survivors of sexual abuse—these lines can become blurred by trauma, shame, or confusion.

If you’ve experienced sexual violence or know someone who has, it’s important to have the language and clarity to differentiate healthy sexual experiences from violations of consent. This is an essential part of the healing process.

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Betrayal: How to Heal from Betrayal Trauma
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Betrayal: How to Heal from Betrayal Trauma

Betrayal trauma occurs when someone you deeply trust—such as a partner, spouse, family member, or close friend—violates that trust in a profound and painful way. This is especially true in cases of sexual betrayal, where the emotional impact can feel destabilizing and traumatic.

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Trauma: How to Heal Trauma by Understanding Your Attachment Style
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Trauma: How to Heal Trauma by Understanding Your Attachment Style

Your earliest relationships shape the way you see yourself, connect with others, and regulate emotions. This foundational connection—usually with your caregiver—is what psychologists call your attachment style. For trauma survivors, understanding this can be a crucial step toward healing.

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EMDR: Myths of EMDR Therapy - What You Need to Know
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

EMDR: Myths of EMDR Therapy - What You Need to Know

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy has gained popularity as an effective treatment for trauma and emotional distress. However, along with its growing recognition, several myths and misconceptions have surfaced. If you’re considering EMDR therapy, understanding the truth behind these myths is key to feeling confident and safe in the process.

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Trauma: Safety is the Missing Love Language that Trauma Survivors Need
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Trauma: Safety is the Missing Love Language that Trauma Survivors Need

The concept of The 5 Love Languages—acts of service, physical touch, words of affirmation, gifts, and quality time—has helped many people navigate emotional connection in relationships. But for trauma survivors, none of these love languages can thrive without a foundational sense of safety.

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Sexual Addiction: Impact of Pornography for Women
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Sexual Addiction: Impact of Pornography for Women

In today’s digital world, pornography is more accessible than ever—and its impact on women is becoming increasingly evident. While conversations around pornography often focus on men, emerging data shows that women are also being deeply affected—emotionally, psychologically, and sexually.

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Betrayal: 8 Types of Betrayals That Can be Just as Damaging as Affairs
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Betrayal: 8 Types of Betrayals That Can be Just as Damaging as Affairs

When people think of betrayal in a relationship, cheating is often the first thing that comes to mind. But the truth is, infidelity isn’t the only form of betrayal—and in many cases, it’s not even the most damaging.

Whether it’s emotional neglect, dishonesty, or undermining your partner’s sense of self-worth, betrayal takes many forms. Here are 8 types of relationship betrayals that can be just as hurtful—if not more—than a physical affair.

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Sex Therapy: Using BDSM to Heal Trauma
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Sex Therapy: Using BDSM to Heal Trauma

When most people think of BDSM—Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism—they often associate it with rough sex, pain, or control. However, this perception is incomplete. For many trauma survivors, BDSM can serve as a powerful tool for healing—allowing them to reclaim power, experience bodily autonomy, and engage in deeply supportive connection.

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Sex Therapy: How to Have a Healthy Sex Life After Sexual Abuse
Jamie Gibbs Jamie Gibbs

Sex Therapy: How to Have a Healthy Sex Life After Sexual Abuse

Sexual trauma affects millions of people, but healing is possible—and so is having a fulfilling, safe, and healthy sex life. Whether you are struggling with trust, arousal, shame, or flashbacks, you are not alone. Through trauma-informed therapy and supportive relationships, survivors of sexual abuse can reclaim intimacy and experience real connection.

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